I could never have any kind of BDSM relationship where there was no love and care for one another.
I need the love and care just as much as I need to be punished.
If there’s no love or care, it’s not BDSM, it’s abuse.
If there’s no love and care, its just a loveless, uncaring relationship with lots of hot, angry, violent, sex.
im tired of MRAs yelling at women for exploiting the patriarchy. its not taking advantage when you’re acting under persecution. its learning how to play a rigged game.